Lexi (she/her) is a lifestyle journalist based in Jacksonville, Florida.
She has reported on countless topics, including sexual wellness, astrology, relationship issues, non-monogamy, mental health, pop culture, and more. In addition to Bustle, her work has been published on Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Well + Good, Byrdie, Women’s Health, Popsugar, and others. As a queer and plus-size woman living with mental illness, Lexi strives for intersectionality and representation in all of her writing.
She holds a BFA in Musical Theatre from Jacksonville University, which she has chosen to make everyone’s problem. A self-proclaimed “hot mess with a big heart”, Lexi is a Libra sun, Capricorn moon, and Sagittarius rising. When she’s not hunched over her laptop, you can probably find her drinking an ungodly amount of Diet Coke, oversharing on social media, draining her limited social battery, or being codependent with her rescue dog, Remi. You can follow her on Instagram and Twitter @lexiinks.
Self
5 Signs You Have A Toxic Relationship With Yourself
Plus what you can do to deal.
Relationships
Why Being “Too Sensitive” In Relationships Is A Good Thing
It’s often advantageous to be vulnerable and feel things deeply.
Sex & Relationships
18 Hinge Prompt Answers To Try If You’re Looking For Something Casual
“Go with witty and sarcastic but also the truth,” says a relationship expert.
Relationships
12 Active Date Ideas That'll Get You & Your Boo Outside
For when you're bored with movie night.
Sex
TikTok's Voluntary Celibacy Trend Has Sparked A Movement
The lowdown on why people are waiting longer to have sex.
Relationships
10 Texts That'll Help You Reconnect With An Ex-Best Friend
Letting them know you've been thinking about them could break the ice.
Relationships
12 Creative Double Date Ideas To Try With Your Fave Couples
Expert-approved ways to up the ante from the usual dinner with friends.
Relationships
How To Manage New Relationship Energy In A Polyamorous Relationship
Don't let the honeymoon phase negatively impact your existing partners.
Dating
28 Hinge Prompt Answers To Try If You Want A Serious Relationship
Manifest that LTR.
Sex
Should You Sleep With Someone To Get Over Your Ex? Experts Weigh In
Here's what to consider before a romp in the sheets.
Relationships
12 Cute Winter Date Ideas, Straight From Relationship Experts
Even if it's cold outside, these activities are sure to warm your heart.
Relationships
Your Guide To Befriending Someone On Instagram
Forget what your mom said about meeting strangers online.
Relationships
Should You Date Someone Who Just Got Out Of A Relationship?
Make sure they're not seeking revenge on their ex, for one.
Relationships
Are Two People With A Physical Touch Love Language A Good Match?
“There is a natural ebb and flow in this unsaid communication that is comforting and connecting."
Relationships
10 Underrated Relationship Tips That Can Benefit Every Couple
Because hearing “communication is key” can only help so much.
Relationships
"Winter Coating" Is The Dating Trend No One Asked For
Here’s how to avoid being tossed aside like an outgrown puffer jacket.
Dating
10 Cute Holiday Date Ideas To Try With Your Boo
Turn your life into a Hallmark movie.
Sex
6 Chair Sex Positions That Just Might Blow Your Mind
Give your furniture a whole new purpose.
Extremely Online
The "Dating Wrapped" Movement On TikTok Will Entertain You For Hours
You weren't the only one who got ghosted/catfished/the ick.
Relationships
A Guide To Dating When Polyamorous
“Approaching it with curiosity can really transform the experience into a journey of self-discovery and growth.”