6 Chair Sex Positions That Just Might Blow Your Mind

For starters, Wright suggests the wrapped lotus (a modified version of the traditional lotus sex position). “The partner with the penetrative body part or strap-on sits cross-legged as the person being penetrated mounts themselves on the other's lap, facing them with the other person’s legs wrapped around their back,” she explains. “This is an incredibly intimate and fun position that feels connected.”

The downside? “It takes a bit of adjusting to figure out how to penetrate in and out — but you can get it, I promise,” Wright says.

If the receiving partner is slightly more dextrous with their body than the other (or if the penetrating partner simply needs a break), Wright recommends trying the “lazy person” chair sex position. “The partner with the penetrative body part or strap-on sits with their back against [a chair] with their legs stretched out. The person receiving the penetration hops on and straddles their partner with their knees bent and feet flat on whatever surface they’re on,” she says. The partner on top uses their thigh muscles to lift themselves up and down. “This is a bit easier because only the person on top is doing any work — hence the name,” says Wright. Try this one on a larger, more comfortable chair.

Wright suggests adding a sex toy like the Trojan Tandem Vibrating Ring into the champagne room chair sex position. “The partner with the penetrative body part or strap-on sits on the edge of the [chair] while the person being penetrated sits on top, facing away from their partner’s face,” she explains. “This is great for folks who don't have a ton of leg strength but still want to be on top while being penetrated.”

Using a chair with your partner can also add some spice to a more “traditional” position. If you like being on top, try having chair sex cowperson-style. “Whoever has the penetrative body part or strap-on sits on the chair while the person receiving the penetration straddles them, facing them, and moves their body up and down,” says Wright.

Similar to the previous position, try getting on top of your partner using the chair — but in reverse. “Bonus points if you add in a little lap dance from this angle,” says Wright. Turn up the heat in reverse cowperson by doing some hair pulling stimulation or nipple play. Yeehaw.

If you and your partner tend to like more physically challenging positions, Wright recommends the chair wheelbarrow — a posture that allows for deep penetration. “You and your partner face the same direction standing one in front of the other and have the person with the strap-on or penis sit down on the edge of the chair,” she explains.

The person being penetrated kneels facing away from their partner and gets into a plank pose, then lifts one leg to wrap around the other’s waist. “Definitely ask for help with lifting the other leg,” Wright suggests. “The person sitting can hold on to the other person's thighs to direct the hip movement and keep balance.” If both of you are considerably dextrous, using this position can have a really big payoff.