Griffin Wynne
Griffin Wynne is a sex and relationships writer at Bustle. Their work centers on all the things you’re “not supposed” to talk about like double texting, OnlyFans, and D-List celebrities’ love lives. They primarily cover sexual health and wellness, gender and sexuality, and internet sex and dating culture, with a focus on sex worker liberation, sex positivity, and reproductive justice. In addition to Bustle, their sex and relationships work has appeared in Cosmopolitan, SELF, Teen Vogue, Elite Daily, Crybaby Zine, and Xtra Magazine. While they’re critical and cautious of the “DIY scene,” Griffin got their start in zines, music journalism, and self-publishing covering queer punk bands and sad people making music in their bedrooms. Their music writing can be found in Razorcake Magazine, She Shreds, and Slumber Mag. Griffin graduated from Occidental College in 2017 with a double major in Religious Studies and Cognitive Science. When they’re not studying the sociological roots of current TikTok trends, Griffin can be found camping, drinking plain seltzer, crying to Liz Phair, working in harm reduction, or going to Goodwill. They’re a Capricorn King, a genderless cowboy, a non-binary bro, and a '70s daddy who is always down for dollar oysters, bonfires, mutual aid, and donating to local abortion funds. Griffin uses they/them pronouns and has the same birthday as Kyle Richards.
Wellness
How Couples Are Dealing With Separation Anxiety As They Go Back To Work
“I know I sound crazy, but it feels dreadful being away from him now.”
Relationships
Most Relationships End. That Doesn’t Mean They Were A Failure.
The “goal” of love can just be having a nice time.
Sex
How To Use A Sex Pillow To Make Every Position Even Hotter
They're a great add for solo sessions, too.
Sex and Relationships
Kourtney Kardashian Is The Ultimate Relationship Chameleon
Taking on your partner's hobbies and interests is healthy — to an extent.
Ask Gen Z
Gen Z Tells Us How To Avoid Becoming A Dating App Pen Pal
“Switch immediately to a plan.”
Sex & Relationships
Parasocial Relationships With Celebrities Aren't Necessarily A Bad Thing
Just remember, all your faves are flawed.
Tech
Bumble's Releasing A "Sober" Badge
No more explaining why you don't want to meet up for drinks.
Sex & Relationships
How To Tell Your Friend Their Partner Is Emotionally Shady
“A supportive friend can help restore their power.”
Bachelor
This ‘Bachelor In Paradise’ Dating Red Flag Is Actually Pretty Common
No one should be surprised by the seriousness of a relationship.
Sex
4 Ways To Increase Your Sex Drive When You’re Feeling Stressed
"Keep the kettle at a low boil."
Relationships
21 Non-Awkward Texts To Send A First Date You Don't Want To See Again
“Nothing good can come of a long text explaining what about them did not work for you.”
Relationships
40 Witty Responses To A "What's Up" Message On Tinder
Solid one-liners to liven up the convo.
Relationships
How To Have The “What Are We?” Convo In A Situationship
Plus, what to do if they want to keep it casual.
Sex & Relationships
Recycled Relationships — Four Couples On How It's Different The Second Time Around
In Bennifer we trust.
Texting
22 Texts That'll Get The Message Across After A Truly Bad Date
No, you can’t just ghost them.
Sex & Relationships
Is It “Cheating” If Your Partner Subscribes To OnlyFans Accounts?
Not necessarily, but it’s probably time for a check-in.
Tech
Are Video-First Dating Apps The End Of Swiping?
New app Teleport is like Clubhouse for dating.
Tech
Wait, So OnlyFans Isn't Banning Porn?
At least, not yet.
Dating
Your Guide To Tinder Hot Takes
You can now chat with someone before you match.
Tech
Here’s The Correct Way To Delete Your Tinder
No, you can’t just remove the app from your phone.
