Vanessa Marin

Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist, coach, and writer who helps people stop feeling embarrassed and start having more fun in the bedroom. She studied human sexuality at Brown University and has been featured in publications like The New York Times, Real Simple, CNN, O, The Oprah Magazine, and The Times of London. Whether in her work coaching clients one-on-one over email and video chat, or through her online sex education programs like The Modern Man’s Guide To Conquering Performance Pressure and Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm, she finds immense joy in helping people discover (or rediscover!) their spark. Head over to www.VMTherapy.com with all the questions you’ve been dying to ask.

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My Partner Doesn't Want To Have Sex Anymore

By Vanessa Marin

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What To Do If Your Partner's Medication Is Affecting Your Sex Life

By Vanessa Marin

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What To Do If Your Partner Changes Their Mind About Period Sex

By Vanessa Marin

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Does Your Partner Keep Joking About A Particular Fantasy?

By Vanessa Marin

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Have Trust Issues? Here's What To Do

By Vanessa Marin

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Should You Break Up With Your Partner Because Of A Crush?

By Vanessa Marin

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Porn Is Ruining My Relationship

A sex therapist weighs in.

By Vanessa Marin

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What Do Unusual Sexual Fantasies Mean?

By Vanessa Marin

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What To Do If You Can't Make Your Partner Orgasm

By Vanessa Marin

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How Do You Walk Away From A Casual Relationship You Wish Was Serious?

By Vanessa Marin

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How To Figure Out How You Really Feel About Casual Sex

By Vanessa Marin

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Is Your Partner Uncomfortable With Receiving?

By Vanessa Marin

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Talking To Your Partner About Sex Toys Can Be Complicated

By Vanessa Marin

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Should You Be Worried If Your Partner Likes Rough Sex?

By Vanessa Marin

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What Should You Do If Your Partner Can't Orgasm & Blames You For It?

By Vanessa Marin

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Should You Open Your Relationship If You Have Another Crush?

By Vanessa Marin

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How To Make It Clear You're A Lesbian

By Vanessa Marin

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How To Use A Vibrator For The First Time

A sex therapist on how to get on with yourself.

By Vanessa Marin and Carolyn Steber

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How Long Should It Take To Orgasm?

By Vanessa Marin

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Do You Get Distracted During Sex? Here's How To Focus

By Vanessa Marin