We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions will remain anonymous. Please send your sex and relationship inquiries to tips@bustle.com. Now, onto this week’s topic: the best lesbian group sex positions.
Q: “We’re two lesbian couples. We’ve been talking about having a group sex adventure, and we’re all on board. Do you have any ideas for positions we could try out? None of us have ever done this before. We’re all excited, but still a little nervous...”
A: Thanks for the question! I’m happy to give you some inspiration. You didn’t mention whether or not any of you enjoy using dildos, so I decided to share a mix of positions that incorporate hand, mouth, and dildo action. Of course, feel free to edit them based on your preferences! Without further ado, here are seven hot ideas for group lesbian sex.
Exhibitionists And Voyeurs
If two of you are feeling more brave than the others, you can have one couple put on a show while the other watches. Check out this list of hot lesbian sex positions to get started with. The voyeurs can enjoy the show as long as they’d like, then join in when they can’t hold back any longer. Or you can take turns putting on shows for each other. You can also play around with breaking up the couples, and pairing a woman from each couple with each other. This is a great way to get the fun going!
Queen For A Day
Take turns lavishing attention on one woman at a time. Have the queen lay down on her back on the bed. The first woman can finger her or perform oral sex, the second woman can focus on her breasts, and the third woman can kiss her. You’ll be totally overwhelmed by sensation when it’s your turn to be the center of attention.
Mirror Images
Another flexible lesbian group sex idea is to simply have both couples do the same thing at the same time. If you have a favorite sex position (again, you can check out this list for some options), get into it, and have the other couple mirror what you’re doing.
One hot option from that list is #3 — the sitting position. Have woman A and woman B sit side by side, at the edge of the bed. Woman C and woman D can kneel on the floor, between woman A and woman B’s legs. Woman A and woman B can kiss each other and play with each others breasts, as can woman C and woman D. Or, if you each like using dildos, you can do the same intercourse position at the same time. There’s something really hot about doing the same thing at the same time. This is also a great option for couples that want to have group sex, but want to mainly focus on their partners.
Daisy Chain
This is a position for ladies who want their group sex experience to be equitable! Have all of you lay on the same side, in a circle, facing inwards. Maneuver your bodies so your heads are between the legs of the woman in front of you. It can take some wriggling around, but you should each be able to perform oral (or use your hands) on the woman in front of you.
Dual Doggy
Have woman A and woman B get on their hands and knees, facing each other so their faces are close enough to kiss. Woman C should kneel behind woman A, and woman D should kneel behind woman B. If you like using dildos, woman C and woman D can use them in classic Doggystyle position. If not, woman C and woman D can use their hands to finger their partners. You’ll be able to have eye contact with two other women, and you can all reach out and play with each other in some way.
Dual Face Sit
Have woman A and woman B lie on their backs, side by side, but with a bit of space in between them. Woman C should straddle woman A’s face, with her body pointed towards woman A’s head (not backwards, towards woman A’s feet). Woman D should do the same on woman B. Woman A and woman B can use their hands and mouths on their partners. Woman C and woman D can lean over to kiss or touch each other. This is a great option because straddling can be one of the most pleasurable oral sex positions, but it can also be a bit lonely when you’re the receiver. This way, you have someone to play with as you receive!
The Roving Voyeur
Have woman A lie flat on her back. Woman B should kneel between woman A’s legs, and use her hands or mouth on woman A. Or woman B can use a dildo. Woman C can straddle woman A’s head, facing whatever direction she likes. Woman D gets to sit back and watch the other three play with each other. She can move around, joining in on the action as she pleases.
Have fun!
