Valentine's Day
30 Super Sweet Things To Write In A Valentine's Day Card
Embrace the cheese.
Staring at a blank Valentine’s Day card is stressful, to say the least. Even though you love your partner and know exactly how you feel about them, putting those feelings into words can be tricky.
In some ways, your go-to love language is what might be holding you back from crafting the perfect card. If you’re more of a “quality time” or “gift giving” type of person, then it might be tough to express yourself with sweet words.
It can also feel a bit cheesy to pour your heart out in a red, sparkly note, but why not lean into it for the holiday? This is your chance to get mushy and share how you feel about your partner — and the more honest you are, the better.
To get some inspo, close your eyes and think about the last nice thing that your partner did for you, and how it made you feel. Now, summarize that into a sentence. And, voila — "I appreciate the fact that you're always so considerate" is now the closer you'll use for your card.
If you're still looking for some inspiration for Valentine’s Day wishes, here are 30 more cute things you can include in your card.
1"You're the brightest part of my day."
This one is cute since it's probably true. If you live with your partner, and can't wait to leave the office and come home to a nice hug, they truly make things better. The best part? It's not overly romantic. It's more of a simple way to say that they mean the world to you.
2"Thank you for always being there for me, no matter what."
Everyone goes through stressful periods in life. Since the holidays just ended, you or your partner might have just stumbled out of one. (Seriously, why is the holiday season so draining?) In a good relationship, the two of you are a team. Thank your partner for constantly working with you, through thick and thin.
3"You always find the perfect way to make me smile."
This one is more honest and cute, and less romantic and sensual. Write this for the partner who always finds a way to make you laugh, even when the world seems stressful.
4"Things get better when I hold your hand."
Hand-holding is such a sweet form of PDA. When you hold someone's hand, you unite as one. This one phrase — which is perfect for a new relationship — will make your significant other want to shower you with affection.
5"My crush on you grows every single day."
Even if you've been together for a decade, it's still sweet (and pretty darn cute) to crush on your significant other. Crushes show a sense of innocence and prove that your attraction has never dwindled — even during their questionable mustache phase.
6"You make me want to be a better person."
OK, so this one was inspired by As Good As It Gets — but Melvin Udall really got it right. Think of all the ways your partner inspires you to be better, even if it's a simple act — like putting your laundry in a hamper instead of leaving it crumpled on the floor. You know you’ve found a great person when they encourage you to be the best version of yourself.
7"I didn't realize how good relationships could be until I met you."
Sometimes people need to suffer through a few stinkers before finding someone who makes dating seem light, fun, and easy. Compatibility is a wonderful thing. This statement just says "I'm super compatible with you" but in a cuter way, and it’s a sweet thing to write in a Valentine’s Day card for a new partner.
8"I see myself growing old with you."
Again, this one was inspired by a movie — The Wedding Singer, to be exact. But, there's a reason why the romantic comedy ended with such a fun little Adam Sandler song. It's because it was romantic and a cute way of saying that you could see your love standing through the test of time.
9"You're everything I didn't even know I was looking for."
When you start dating someone, you usually figure out who they are at a base level — you're obviously physically attracted to them, and likely share an interest or two. As the relationship starts to grow, you then realize why you're such a good pair. The best relationships teach you a lot about yourself while they're occurring, and this statement sums that all up perfectly.
10"You're the peanut butter to my jelly."
Or, the chocolate to my peanut butter. Or the Nutella to my everything. There's something cute about popular food pairings.
11"Happiness is when I'm with you."
Not to get into the definition of happiness, but obviously, it's an incredible emotion — and one that you likely feel in spades since falling in love. Your partner should always bring you happiness, but defining your happiness as your partner is definitely next-level cute.
12"You are my favorite person, by far."
This is such a sweet way to say that your partner is your number one priority — and someone who you never get tired of seeing. If you’re looking for a message to write to a friend or family member, this one will work for that, too.
13"Nothing is safer than the sound of you reading out loud to me — the perfect date”
A poem from Rupi Kaur's Milk And Honey, this one will give your partner all the feels.
14"I love you and that’s the beginning and end of everything."
Sweet, simple, and straight to the point — this quote from F. Scott Fitzgerald's The Great Gatsby is the only line your Valentine’s Day card needs.
15"I don't know what I'd do without you."
If your relationship has recently hit a snag, then this might feel fitting. It suggests you’re so happy to be together and can’t imagine a life without them.
16“To me, you are perfect."
This line from Love Actually just sums it all up.
17"You had me at... 'hey, how's your week going?’"
...or whatever opening line your partner used online to first get your attention. It's funny, cute, and a more updated version of the icon line from Jerry Maguire.
18“Thank you for always making me feel like I’m at home, no matter where we are.”
Everyone deserves a partner who makes them feel safe and loved. If your partner is that person for you, V-Day is a great time to remind them.
19“Waking up with you is always such a gift.”
If you and your S.O. live together, this is a sweet way to let them know that seeing their face first thing in the morning never gets old. Cheers to many more years of waking up in the same bed.
20“I’m so lucky that you’re my forever Valentine.”
V-Day is the perfect time to get a little mushy, so why not lean in? This is the perfect message to write at the end of a store-bought card for a little personal touch.
21“You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.”
This probably isn’t the kind of thing you say to your S.O. every single day, so use Valentine’s Day as an excuse to let them know how much you adore them. It’s the perfect excuse to let it all out and be 100% honest about how you feel.
22“You’re my favorite person on the planet.”
Imagine how it would feel to read this sweet message from your partner. Tell them they’re number one in your eyes — and always will be.
23“I’m so grateful that I met you.”
Add in some details about your first date to make this note extra special. You could recount a first date, tell a funny story, or share a secret — like how you weren’t so sure at first, but are glad you stuck it through the first few clunky dates.
24“I like who I become when I’m with you.”
It says a lot about a relationship if you both bring out the best in each other. This might refer to how they calm your nervous system or make you feel safe. It could also hint at how you encourage each other to chase after your goals, or how you always feel supported when they’re by your side.
25“You're the best thing I've ever found on the internet.”
This is a cute nod to a partner you met on a dating app. While it doesn’t make for the most romantic “how we met” tale, it’s the way so many couples come to be these days, and you can embrace it and be honest about it — and even turn it into a sweet joke.
26“I’m so happy we’re a thing.”
Whether you and your partner have been a thing for a few months or a few years, announce that you’re super grateful to have them by your side. You do, after all, make such a cute match.
27“Here’s to more adventures!”
If your relationship revolves around day trips, side quests, and fun adventures — or even a life on the road — then jot this down in your card, along with a promise for more fun experiences to come.
28“You're in all of my best memories.”
Isn’t this such a sweet thing to say? It sends the message that your partner is at the center of all your favorite experiences, that they make each one great just by being there, and that their presence is a welcome and wonderful thing in your life.
29“Wish you were here so I could spoil you today.”
If you have a long-distance partner who won’t be able to stop by for Valentine’s Day, then make sure you include this line in your note. Wishing they were with you is only natural, so don’t be afraid to express how you feel. Just make sure you make plans to see each other ASAP!
30“Loving you is easy.”
Love feels easy in the right relationship, so let your partner know that your affection comes easy just because they’re great. Here’s hoping they love their card this Valentine’s Day — and have an equally sweet one ready for you.
Additional reporting by Carolyn Steber.
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