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10 Hot Toys That Are Getting Couples Into BDSM
Thanks mainstream media (and 50 Shades of Grey), BDSM isn't some taboo sex secret that's kept behind closed doors anymore. Now, people are more open to experiment with their sexual desires a through various acts like intense role play or some simple gagging action. If you're new kink and are interested in getting in on the fun, consider trying these hot sex toys for couples who are BDSM beginners.
If you're unsure what BDSM is, let me explain: it's a genre of erotic sex acts ranging from bondage to reverse role play and everything in between. BDSM doesn't quite stand for anything, first of all. Instead, it's a combination of two abbreviations: bondage and dominance, and sadism and masochism. There's no right or wrong way to do it, and you don't need to be an experienced dominatrix with a full-blown sex dungeon (not that there's anything wrong with that, either). There are tons of sex toys out there that do the trick, especially if you want to gradually add kink to your sex life.
While it could be intimidating to bring up BDSM, it's important to talk to your partner and set boundaries before getting started. And one easy way to make the BDSM subject less weird is to get shopping. Show this list of bondage, handcuffs, and other BDSM fetish sex toys to your partner so you both can decide what you're into trying. Now go ahead and get your freak on in the best way possible.
1A BDSM Starter Kit That Covers All Your Bases
Fetish Under the Bed Bondage Kit Set, $15, Amazon
The perfect kit for BDSM newbies, this Fetish Under the Bed Bondage Set comes with everything you need to live out your 50 Shades of Grey fantasies. You'll get four cuffs, a gag ball, whip, and more bondage material, all in black for hours of sexy-time fun.
2A Chasity Case For Locked-Up Fun
Utimi Silicone Cock Cage Chastity Cage, $25, Amazon
If you're into submissive-dominance play, this toy will show your guy who's boss. This Utimi Silicone Cock Cage has five different cock ring sizes to stimulate your guy however you want to. And when he's ready to get it on, it comes right off.
3A Bondage Set For Beginners
Utimi Fetish Under Bed Restraint Kit, $16, Amazon
Utimi's restraint kit is great for couples who want to experiment with bondage. It comes with two hand and ankle cuffs and features high-quality, adjustable nylon straps that fit both male and female partners. Perfect for couples who love reverse role play.
4A Breathable Gag Ball For Intense BDSM Play
Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone Breathable Ball Gag, $21, Amazon
If you're ready to take your BDSM play up a notch, but not too much, then this ball gag is the way to go. The ball bag has three holes to make breathing easier and it's small in size, so it's not too overwhelming for first-timers. The strap is also easy to adjust, fitting most head sizes.
5The Ultimate Pleasure Tape For Restraint
Master Kink Pleasure Tape, $12, Amazon
This non-adhesive black pleasure tape can be used as handcuffs, a blindfold, and even as some extra bondage. It's easy to peel off and is gentle on skin, so you and partner can get frisky without actually getting hurt.
6A Sexy Pair Of Handcuffs
DWHWRJ Wrist Handcuffs, $8, Amazon
These DWHWRJ black handcuffs almost look like the real deal. Big enough for most hands and even ankles, these handcuffs are a great way to add some light BDSM play to your sex life. Plus, they're fuzzy on the inside, so they're super comfortable even if you're a newbie.
7The Best Nipple Clamps For Beginners
Adjustable Nipple Clamps, $12, Amazon
If you're interested nipple stimulation, then these metal clamps are gentle enough for beginners. It also comes with a clamp in the bottom for additional clitoral stimulation during sex.
8A Tool For New Whipping Enthusiasts
Happytimebelt Leather Bullwhip, $16, Amazon
This Happytimebelt leather bullwhip is a playful tool for some stroking, tickling, and of course, whipping. It comes in a leather red and black woven pattern and has a secure trap that stays put on your wrist while you play.
9A Leather Paddle For Playful Spanking
Hocrelov Leather Spanking Paddle, $17, Amazon
Spanking can be a playful way to enhance your sexy time. This spanking paddle is made from high-quality leather and has a wooden handle for easy grip — perfect for BDSM beginners who like to tease each other with a little pow.
10A Sex Swing To Transform Your Bedroom Into A BDSM Playroom
360 Degree Sex Swing, $70, Amazon
Not everyone (read: no one) has a sex dungeon in their place, but this 360 degree spinning sex swing will made your bedroom look like one. With sturdy nylon straps that can hold up to 250 pounds, you and your partner can take turns swinging and turning as you experiment with multiple sex positions.
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