Are Aquarius & Pisces Compatible In A Relationship? Astrologers Weigh In

As the zodiac’s hopeless romantic, Pisces pretty much lives for relationships. They love being in love, and they feel like they’re the best version of themselves when they’re able to make their partner happy. Aquarius, on the other hand, is more into their friendships or community work than their love lives. While Pisces is all about being of service to one person, Aquarius lives to be of service to the community. Naturally, it’s not a pair you’d think would work out. However, that’s not exactly the case here. Aquarius and Pisces’ compatibility shows why they’re a surprisingly well-matched duo.

“A relationship between a romantic Pisces and a creative Aquarius is an interesting affair,” Inbaal Honigman, celebrity psychic and astrologer, tells Bustle. “Like Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel, they have a lot in common. Both are very loyal signs, good at love, and good at marriage. And both are quirky! They'll accept each other exactly as they are and not demand change.”

When Aquarius and Pisces first meet, they won’t have a problem getting along. According to Honigman, Pisces has a knack for “mimicry” and can immediately relate to anyone. When they start talking, Aquarius will finally feel like they’ve met someone who understands them. This will make them curious about Pisces, as Aquarians “spend a lifetime feeling misunderstood.”

Although they do make a good pair in some ways, this isn’t exactly the easiest match for either sign. Aquarius and Pisces are adjacent in the zodiac wheel, and typically, neighboring signs don’t always see eye to eye. In this case, Aquarius is a cool, aloof, intellectual air sign, while Pisces is the dreamy, sensitive, emotional water sign. According to Honigman, “Aquarians are very poker-faced and don’t let their emotions run the show. They think more than they feel, which can be shocking for the Piscean, who is all about the feels! This relationship can be long-lasting, if somewhat frustrating.”

Aquarius & Pisces’ Sexual Compatibility

Sexually, Aquarius and Pisces make a surprisingly good pair. In bed, Aquarius is very open-minded and enjoys trying new things from positions to toys, while Pisces is the type to fulfill their partner’s every sexual fantasy. The water bearer will enjoy being with someone who’s up for anything and Pisces will appreciate having a partner they can finally share their innermost desires with.

“Pisceans feel love on a very deep level, and want to become one with their partner,” Honigman says. “They'll be excited to get jiggy with their loved one anywhere, anytime. Aquarians are similarly devoted, so sexually, they'll be quite compatible.”

Aquarius & Pisces’ Emotional Compatibility

Being on the same emotional page is an area of an Aquarius-Pisces relationship that may be a source of tension. According to Honigman, airy Aquarius is all about the mind. “They feel attached intellectually, not emotionally,” she says. Pisces, on the other hand, is “emotional to a fault,” thanks to their pure water sign energy.

When Pisces is mad, frustrated or sad, Aquarius will know because Pisces has a hard time keeping their feelings in. If they get into a fight, Pisces will be the partner who’s crying, yelling, and having “big feelings.” Aquarius, on the other hand, rarely ever shows their emotions — to them, it’s just not logical. If there’s a problem in the relationship, they have the ability to put their thoughts and feelings aside, look at the situation objectively, and come up with a solution. For Pisces, this way of reacting to a situation comes off as cold and uncaring. Pisces may be left feeling like their partner isn’t as invested in the relationship as they are.

If this relationship is going to work, Pisces will need to learn how to “moderate and mediate their emotions,” Honigman says. Although Aquarius is a problem solver, they’re also notorious for leaving if a situation just doesn’t interest them any longer. If they have to keep reassuring Pisces that they care, they may get frustrated to the point that they leave. For Aquarius, it’s important for them to be understanding of their partner’s emotional needs. Not everyone can go into problem-solving mode like they can. It’s all about finding a middle ground with these two.

Aquarius & Pisces’ Communication

An Aquarius-Pisces relationship will be full of talking, which can have its share of positives and negatives. When it’s good, Aquarius and Pisces spend hours talking about their big dreams for the future and ways for them to make those dreams a reality. However, when it’s bad, they can go around in circles with Aquarius trying to prove their point using logic and emotional Pisces trying to get their partner to see things their way.

“They may argue about commitment, semantics, and about their feelings,” Stina Garbis, professional astrologer and psychic, tells Bustle. “Pisces always wants their partner to express their feelings openly, and it’s hard to get that from Aquarius, who’s hard to nail down when it comes to how they are emotionally feeling.”

There may be moments in the relationship where Pisces wants to hear Aquarius say, “I love you,” but Aquarius just can’t seem to get the words out directly. At the same time, Aquarius may not have the patience to deal with Pisces constantly asking them, “Do you know how that makes me feel?”

On the plus side, both Aquarius and Pisces would rather have a harmonious relationship than stay mad at each other. According to Garbis, taking some time to cool off will usually put them in a good space to come back together to talk out the issue they’re going through. However, don’t be surprised if they’re fighting about the same thing a week later.

Aquarius & Pisces’ Dating Compatibility

As far as dating goes, Aquarius and Pisces’ compatibility is OK. According to Garbis, they’re next door neighbors in the zodiac, which can sometimes lead to tense relationships. However, these two are “hospitable neighbors” who tend to get along fine.

“They both are friendly signs that are sociable and like people,” she says. “When dating, this can be a very chatty couple that’s highly sexually attracted towards each other. However, they may have trouble getting out of the friend zone and into a committed relationship.”

For the most part, freedom-loving Aquarius tends to be very “sluggish” when it comes to commitment, while Pisces, the hopeless romantic, likes jumping all in right away. Because of this, Aquarius and Pisces may be that couple who dates for years without ever taking that next big step, whether that be making an actual commitment, moving in together, or getting married.

“If they find a way to commit and be open and honest with their feelings, they can do very well,” Garbis says. “But if Pisces always feels like they’re talking to a wall, and Aquarius feels as Pisces cares too much, it may be an unequal pairing emotionally that can be challenged for the future.”

Aquarius & Pisces’ Friendship Compatibility

As far as friendship goes, Aquarius and Pisces make a very compatible match. In fact, Garbis says they typically work out better as friends than they do romantic patners. They’re both very social signs who like being out with their friends and enjoy making new ones. Both signs are also very loyal to their friends, and will enjoy the type of friendship that lasts.

“Aquarius makes a great friend who always has an interesting opinion and an interesting approach to problems, and Pisces is very empathetic and always seems to know the right thing to say,” Gabis says. “This intuitive pair can read each other very well and seem to know what’s up with neither of them saying a word.”

Potential Problems In An Aquarius & Pisces Relationship

On the plus side, Aquarius and Pisces disagree on very few things. However, Honigman says these differences are crucial. For one, Pisces’ “emotional neediness” could cause problems, as Aquarius sees no sense in constantly having to reassure their partner. Aquarius is one of the most independent signs in the zodiac, and being in a relationship isn’t a major priority for them. If Pisces ever questions their love or loyalty, an Aquarius is likely to respond with an, “I’m here, aren’t I?” Naturally, this type of response will “send the fish into floods of watery tears,” Honigman says.

Additionally, Pisces is very partnership-oriented and wants to build a life with their partner. They want a lot of affection and attention. They also want to know their partner on a very deep level. Although Aquarius is a fixed sign, which means they’re very loyal, they’re not very good at sharing their feelings or showing affection. It’s why they have a reputation for being pretty cold. They also need a lot of space and alone time to feel content in a relationship.

Aquarius and Pisces will need to find a way to create a relationship that works for both of them. For instance, if Aquarius needs space or time to themselves, Pisces should schedule time to see friends or family. It’s going to require some patience and a lot of conversations, but if they can find something that works for both of them, they’ll have no major problems.

Are Aquarius & Pisces A Good Match?

Despite the challenges that may come their way, Aquarius and Pisces make a good match. “They can last, and last, and last,” Honigman says. “Aquarians have real staying power in relationships. Their love might be a little wooden, but their loyalty is solid gold. Pisceans, on the other hand, love long and deep." It may take some time for them to have the relationship they both want, but they’ll get there.

Sources:

Inbaal Honigman, celebrity psychic and astrologer

Stina Garbis, professional astrologer and psychic