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10 Women Share The Movie Scenes They Get Off To
You don't have to be watching porn to get turned on — movies can easily have the same effect. But what movie scenes do women masturbate do the most? From the romantic, passionate, love scene between Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams in The Notebook to the raw sexual energy between Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie in Mr. and Mrs. Smith, Hollywood loves its sex scenes, which is totally fine, because women love masturbating to them.
I chatted with licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist, Dr. Rachel Needle, about sexy movie scenes and which ones tend to turn a woman on. As Dr. Needle said, “What turns a person on is very individual … Some women like the romantic and sensual scenes, while others enjoy the hot raw sex scenes.”
Needle’s examples of romantic and sensual scenes include a few that you may be familiar with, such as Dirty Dancing and Ghost . “ Dirty Dancing has a great build-up of chemistry between Johnny and Baby … just the sensuality of the two of them dancing in his living room is exciting. The sensuality, sensitivity and dirtiness of the pottery scene in Ghost can be a turn on for some. Titanic has another great one, specifically, the scene where they make love in the car. The passion and climax of the scene is sexy … The Notebook is a another exciting and romantic love story. The scene where they get caught in the rain and then overcome with passion is oh-so-hot. Also, the actors themselves are quite beautiful to watch,” she says.
But if romantic and sensual isn’t exactly your style, Needle suggests the scene in 8 Mile, where Eminem and Brittany Murphy have a quickie in the back where he works since forbidden quickies in public spaces tend hot. Another good quickie scene is the one from 2002’s Unfaithful , starring Diane Lane and Richard Gere. According to Dr. Needle, it’s a great scene for “those who get excited from the raw, ‘can’t keep your hands off each other’ sex.” Other great options include the elevator scene in Basic Instinct , and Maggie Gyllenhaal in Secretary when she’s getting spanked by her boss.
But of course, nothing can beat the chemistry between Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. As Needle said, “The raw violent scene in Mr. and Mrs. Smith is hot. Let’s just start with the fact that it’s Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, which is a turn-on in itself to most! The scene where they're in a fight that ends in rough passionate sex between husband and wife is a turn on.”
While Dr. Needle offered up some great recommendations, I took to the boards of Reddit to find out, which movie scenes turn women on. Here 10 women and the movie scenes they masturbate to.
1. cocacin
There's a scene in Chloe with Amanda Seyfried and Julianne Moore that was hot.
2. Cuddlebunz
In the movie Femme Fatale (2002) at the beginning when Rebecca Romijn was making out with another woman. That sh*t was f*cking hot.
Femme Fatale, $4, Amazon
3. vickychile
The scene from Transformers where Megan Fox checks the car's engine. OMG, I got so wet! And I'm not even gay. She was so hot back then. I masturbated afterwards thinking about her in that outfit.
Transformers, $4, Amazon
4. 925Copper
Meg Ryan masturbating in the movie In The Cut.
5. Girl_Scout_Motto
Inherent Vice... I reenacted that spanking scene with my bf immediately after the movie.
Inherent Vice, $3, Amazon
6. mariekex
Irreversible (the rape) and Deer Hunter (young-ish Robert De Niro in uniform).
Irreversible, $3, Amazon
Deer Hunter, $5, Amazon
7. aperfectmouth
There is a scene in The Accused (Jodi Foster). It's a dark but consistent fantasy. I've never told any man, actually no one.
The Accused, $4, Amazon
8. unladenswallow__
Does it have to be a movie? Because basically all the sex scenes in True Blood get me going. Team Eric, Team Bill, Team Alcide, hell, even Team Jason.
True Blood, $4, Amazon
9. sci_tech_sara
I'm a TV girl, too. True Detective Season 1 (Marty/his girl on the side, Rust and Maggie in his apartment, Rust during that one "shootout") and Ethan Haas on Masters of Sex doing just about anything.
True Detective, $3, Amazon
Masters of Sex, $3, Amazon
10. OhMyCuticles
That scene in that Canadian movie where the guy is practicing oral on a cantaloupe ... I can't remember what it is.
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